男人和女人的区别 英语作文 Microsoft Word 文档

Men Are Different from Women in Many Ways In the modern age, men and women have many differences. And many of their behavior performance is not the same, for example in the expressions of love, dealing with questions, the language communication ability and so on way

Firstly, Men feel they are loved when needed, but for women, they feel that when cherished. Since man’s sense of self is defined through his success and accomplishment, they express their love by giving presents. The levels of love are proportional to the presents’ values. In contrast, a woman’s sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationships. They express their love by sharing and they empathize on their emotions. If men and women do not understand each other, arguments may be resulted. For example, a woman likes to share with her husband when she is upset and she thinks it is a way to express her love. However, if a man misinterpreted and so he empathizes on giving solutions or change her view due to the hope to be ‘useful’ and ‘needed’, despite the hard work involved, he will be upset by the negative response from her. There are many examples in this book to explain this point. At this moment, men should listen patiently to let his partner know she is being cared and loved.

Secondly, Because of different self definitions, men like to solve problems alone but women are opposite. Men do not like unsolicited advice from others since they think they must be ‘useful’. However, women think that sharing their problems can solve the problems, so they are strange about the rejection of advice for men. For example, if a man gets lost, he does not want his partner to give him advice, but he wants to do his best to achieve the goal. This gives him sense of achievement. In this book, the author empathizes on this point in various chapters. It is one of the most important points in maintaining a good relationship between both sexes.

The last but not least, To fully express their feelings, women assume poetic

license and use various superlatives, metaphors and generalizations. They usually use extreme words to express their feelings. However, men may analyze the words logically and so they may misinterpret what women say. Due to the misunderstanding, conflicts may be resulted. In this book, it provides a ‘Translation dictionary’ to help couples understand their different languages. Overall, men and women have distinction to have connection again already, are inseparable whole, they make up a home. So, they should be more effort to play their own ability, creating a better house.

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