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引导孩子对明星要一分为二，不能盲目叫好。要学习明星内在的品质、人格魅力，让孩子明白明星虽然非常风光，有鲜花和掌声，但他们有痛苦和艰辛。有的明星由于缺乏正确的人生观、价值观，其行为与国家有关政策、法规背道而驰，走上犯罪的道路。这样就能帮助孩子们提高认识是非的标准，避免盲目崇拜。 [in'gridi?nt]['r???nl]

Second,they also need to point out that pursuing the star must want the rational instruction. Worshiping the idol blindly will result in losing themsleves. They should guide the child from two perspectives. For one thing,young people are supposed to study the star’s intrinsic quality. For another,young people should get insight into the fact that the star has the fresh flower and the applause, but they also have the pain and difficult. Some stars behave against the law because they lack the correct values of life.Only in this way can they help the children to enhance the understanding of right and wrong .Only in this way can they help children not pursuing the idol blindly.

对青少年追星引导要得法。不要动不动就说教，就压制或强行干涉孩子。父母和老师要学会换位思考，站在孩子的角度为孩子着想，用心灵去体会孩子的所为，平等地与孩子交流；要正确理解孩子，让他们讲出心里的想法，指出如果过于盲目崇拜偶像，没有了自我，崇拜偶像就成了负担，成了生活中的绊脚石。对于孩子在崇拜偶像中的正常行为，应从正面入手，给予支持。(在学习上要创造一个宽松的学习环境，不能施加过多的压力，要讲究教学方法，想法培养其学习积极性，提高学习兴趣。要及时引导青少年通过追星树立正确的价值观、人生观、世界观)

In a world , guide the young people should get the knack. Neither

suppress nor interfere the child forcefully. The parents and teachers need to think about things from child's angle, realize child's behavior by heart, chart with the child equally.What’s more,they should try their best to understand child correctly so as to let them mention the ideas at heart.Last but not least,they have to point out that the idolatry will become the burden or obstacle in life if young people worship the idol blindly. They should be opposite about the normal behaviour of pursuing the idol to give the support. (Must create a loose learning environment in the study, cannot bring excessively many pressures, must be fastidious about the teaching method, the idea raises its study enthusiasm, enhances the study interest. Must guide the young people through to pursue the star promptly to set up the correct values, the outlook on life, world outlook)